I have always been a huge proponent of taking chances. For one, it makes for way better stories. I’m not talking like Steve-O level stuff, but more like, taking a year off after high school and moving to Guatemala (check), singing karaoke at a bar in Costa Rica when you’re the only non-native Spanish speaker there (check), or staying out all night before your early morning flight and just sleeping on the plane (check times a billion).
The latest chance I took is that I skipped my own college graduation yesterday – and wore my cap and tassel on a beach in Colombia instead.
Five months ago, my best friend since I was born (literally) invited me to meet her in Cartagena, Colombia over Memorial Day Weekend. I live in California and she lives in New York, so I see her for 24 hours out of the year if I’m lucky. I said I would go and started saving up. However, two months ago when I went to buy the ticket, I realized that those dates coincided with the weekend of my college graduation ceremony.
I spent the better part of three weeks debating what to do. You already know what I decided.
I only regretted it for a few minutes when I saw my graduating friends’ Snapchats of them all together at graduation, and I had a serious case of FOMO…for five minutes, and then I remembered I had been floating around in the warm ocean with my best friend instead of standing in a hot, crowded stadium for six hours, and I felt better.
Last summer, I backpacked around Europe with a friend and fell head over heels in love with Barcelona, Spain. Ever since I came back home eleven months ago, I’ve been saying I wanted to live there and have a post-college non-office job for a few months before I decided to Adult. After buying my Cartagena ticket with no real plan, I decided just to go for it.
Next week, I’m traveling to Madrid, Spain by myself for four days before moving to Barcelona to work as a party promoter.
I have no idea how long I’ll be there or what I’m doing after, and about once a day, I have a momentary freak out about traveling alone, running out of money, etc. etc. etc. But this is what I’m doing, and obviously, I’m pretty excited about it.
Do it for the story.